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Readers Respond: Stupid Questions People Ask About Twins

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Parents of twins are used to fielding questions about their multiples. The public is fascinated by twins and multiples, and love to make conversation about them. Sometimes, the questions can be really ridiculous, or even offensive. Share your story about the stupidest questions people ask about twins. Share Your Story

Mom of twin boys

I had a my newborn twins in a carseat together in a grocery store. Some lady came over to my shopping cart to look at them and the first thing she asked me was oh are they conjoined? I really wanted to smack her.
—Guest Terri

Dumb questions people ask me

OMG i hate it when people be like "are you guys related?" or "Are you guys sisters?" i mean duh! But then they make a excuse saying oh it thought you guys were just random people and met each other looking alike -.-
—Guest anonymous person

Twin Telepathy?

Seriously, no one ever gets asked this? or the "If I punch your sister, will you feel it?"
—Guest Stephanie

You guys aren't fraternal!

I'm always dumbfounded when people try to PROVE to me and my twin sister that we aren't fraternal but identical. I will admit for fraternal twins, we definitely look alike. But, It always annoys me when I'm attempted to be proved wrong that we are identical.
—Guest Stephanie

What's it like to be a twin?

I hate it when people ask thins question because you have no way to answer it, and it gets very annoying!!!
—Guest idnticaltwin

grrrr

omg those are all so true. I hate it when that happens. Another thing is, when we talk the same people say "WHOA" LIKE IN SURROUND SOUND! I also hate it when they ask, "Who's the different one?"
—Guest twins22

how can you tell them apart?

I have an identical twin brother. When my younger sister was asked by her friends how she could tell us apart, she would always say we smelled different.
—Guest Jamie

More stupid questions

I'm a fraternal twin and I absolutely HATE "what's it like being a twin?" How do you answer that? Also, "where's your twin?" I don't know. I'm not in charge of knowing where she is at all times. The worst, though: "Why does she have braces and you don't?" Because she needs them and I don't! And when people ask whether we're identical or fraternal...but don't know the difference or how to pronounce fraternal.
—Guest Sara

Silly Twins Questions

Most comments I receive about my twins are innocuous - people are fascinated by twins! The "double trouble" comments don't disturb me or annoy me. One question stumped me however. I had recently met an OB nurse who asked, while playing with my boy/girl twins, if they were identical. I get the general public not getting, but an OB nurse? Really?
—Guest RcCarol

Stupid Question

My husband and I have twins a boy and a girl, Andrew & Arielle(2) One day we went took the kids to the park because we have an older son, Austin(6). A lady came over to us and asked me if they were triplets. Austin is a average six year old boy and looks like one too and the twins look like two year olds.
—Guest Kianta

Stupid Question

The most stupid question is: What does it feel like to be a twin? What?? What does that mean. I don't know what it feels like not to be a twin. Should I ask you what it feels like not to be a twin?
—Guest Leslie

Twins? Are you the same age?

I had to walk away from that question lol figured someone else would answer for me
—Guest Sandra

Stupid Questions!

Teacher:Are-are you twins?! Me: No we're cousins. We're identical. Why would you ask that! That teacher was a twin too. If you're a teacher you should be smart enough to tell.
—Guest kikii

there in pink

twins??? are they girls or boys ????????? there both in dresses ohh
—caseynewzealand

Oh my goodness-seriously?

I can't get over how people still question if my boy/girl twins are identical even though they look nothing alike and are of course a boy and a girl. Last time I changed their nappy they definitely weren't identical. That's the response I now give them!! I've just started writing a blog and I have an entry on this exact topic! www.twinslovekisses.blogspot.com
—Guest twin guest

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