I like to believe that in general, the world is a good place and that most people are nice. Twins naturally generate attention and affection from the public. If you get desperate and really need an extra hand, you'll find it. Don't expect people to offer, however. ASK. Most people, when asked politely and with a smile, are more than glad to help out. Look for people who return your smile and seem interested in your twins, and direct your requests at them. Make specific and simple requests, and you'll likely find cooperation.
In my experience traveling with young twins, our family found the airline personnel to be unfailingly generous with help -- from carrying bags to entertaining the babies. But I fully recognize that the scope of their job is much more important and demanding and don't expect that kind of treatment. There are some helpful options that might make your travel easier.
- 1) Ask the airline if your flight can be met, so that you'll have assistance getting to the baggage claim or to another gate. If personnel and equipment are available, you'll be transported through the airport via electric cart. Policies differ by airline and airport, so call ahead to make arrangements.
2) Ask the airline if someone at your arrival destination can meet the flight at the gate. Security restrictions prohibit anyone without a boarding pass from going through security, but some airlines may accommodate this special request.
If things go wrong -- one or both of your twins offend your fellow travelers by crying, smelling, making faces, or in general being out of control -- remember that you will likely never see them again. (Your fellow travelers that is, not your twins!) Who cares? Most people are understanding. Many are parents too. And everyone on that plane was a baby themselves at one time!! Be gracious to the kind people, forget about the rude ones.
