The first few months with twins or multiples can be a trying time for families. Juggling the care of several newborns is a round-the-clock job. Sleep deprivation adds to the physical strain while postpartum hormonal swings heighten out-of-control emotions. Even experienced parents can fall into these common traps when their twins, triplets or more are born. Avoid them, and you'll find that the first few months of caring for multiples is much more manageable.

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