When Twins Go Separate Ways

It's official. My twin daughters will be going to different high schools starting next fall. One will attend our district high school, where she hopes to try out for the volleyball team. The other will attend an international studies academy at another high school across town. They are both excited about the opportunities available to them at their respective schools, but there is also some trepidation. For once, they will not be known as "the twins." They will be on their own. Certainly, that's an exciting prospect, and I think they both relish the idea of being outside the shadow of their sister. They have both admitted that they secretly like the idea of being able to flaunt the "twin card" when it suits them, surprising people that don't know with the information that they have a "secret" twin. They also acknowledge that there is an inherent benefit to having a same-age sibling at another high school: the chance to enjoy a double dose of social activities.

Admittedly, I'm nervous. How will they fare without each other? Even more, how will I ever coordinate their voluminous transportation demands? They're both very active and involved. Even now, I am often called upon to be in two places at the same time, but at least it is within the same vicinity! Their two high schools will be miles apart across town. Fortunately, I have already confirmed that their graduation times won't conflict. At least I won't have to worry about that four years from now!

I never imagined that my twins would go to different schools. But I'm proud of both of them, with their diverse interests and skills. I think that this venture will both strengthen their relationship with each other, and allow them to excell as individuals.