Forum Discussion: Comparing Preemies

For better or worse, twins are always being compared. One mom of infant twin boys is struggling with this issue. Here's her post from the message board:

Our premature boys were born at 32 weeks and are now 3 months old. They are gaining weight and are now 8 lbs. and 10 lbs. I find myself very anxious about the smaller one as he seems so much younger, fussier and more immature than his bigger brother. I can't help but compare...his brother smiles and he does not. This little one fusses all day and his brother is mellow. Has anyone else had this experience and everything turned out ok?? I think I need some reassurance, but I also want to be prepared. I would really welcome anyone's stories. Thank you!

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