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Forum Friday: Staying Sane At Home with Twins

Friday November 20, 2009

aprilelizabeth writes: "I am hoping to get some good advice on how to stay sane while staying at home with my 2 and 1/2 year olds! I have boy/girl twins and some days feel as though I am losing my mind. Is that normal? ...though my family tries to be helpful, I don't know anyone personally who has had twins and have come to the conclusion that it is a unique experience that only someone who has been there can understand. I am a stay at home mom so I am also looking forward to speaking (or rather typing) with an actual adult!"

The isolation of being a stay-at-home mom can be overwhelming. Women who are accustomed to interacting with other adults in the workplace, find themselves in the company of babies or toddlers every day, and yearning for social connections. Mothers of twins or multiples may feel even more secluded. Not only are they meeting the demands of more children, but their feelings and circumstances don't match the experiences of moms of singletons.

Thank goodness for the Internet! It gives mothers easy, round-the-clock access to fellow moms of multiples. Just like aprilelizabeth, they can reach out to other moms for advice, support and companionship, and instantly connect with women around the globe. Stop by the message forum and join in the conversation. Find fellowship and friendship with other parents; share your wisdom and experience with others who are seeking advice. It just may save your sanity!

Thankful for Twins

Thursday November 19, 2009

Thanksgiving is right around the corner, one of my favorite times of the year. There is something very fortifying about taking time to gather with family and friends and count our blessings. It makes you appreciate how very blessed you are.
In preparation for Thanksgiving, take a moment to tell me why you are thankful to have twins or multiples. Granted, there are some moments of the day when you don't feel so thankful, for example when they are fighting, making a mess or crying incessantly. But in the big picture, most parents of multiples agree that they wouldn't trade it for the world.

Here's my list: 10 Reasons I'm Thankful for Twins. Please add your own reason!

Twins of the Week: Charley and Saige

Wednesday November 18, 2009

11 year old twins Charley and Saige

Photo reprinted with permission of Cheryl Munitich.

Two in a tree! Twin sisters, Charley and Saige, were eleven years old when this picture was taken. The fraternal twins first appeared on this site when they were four years old. They sure have grown up!
• Share your thoughts, opinions and advice in the comments section.
More Worldless Wednesday Posts on About.com.
School-Aged Twins Photo Gallery
Index of All Photo Galleries

Prematurity Awareness Day

Tuesday November 17, 2009

November 17th is National Prematurity Awareness Day, part of the March of Dime's Prematurity Awareness Month. Twins and multiples are among the highest risk group for premature birth. Each year, nearly half a million babies are born prematurely, often with devastating lifelong consequences.

March of Dimes Fight for Preemies
Image courtesy March of Dimes

The March of Dimes Prematurity Campaign has two goals: (1) to raise public awareness of the problems of prematurity and (2) to decrease the rate of preterm birth in the U.S. The are accomplishing these goals by funding research, educating women about risk-reduction strategies, providing information and support to families, advocating for health care, and helping medical care providers address risk factors. You can also help the March of Dimes in this endeavor. Visit their website to learn more about prematurity and find out what you can do to promote this cause. Create a virtual wrist band in honor or in memory of children you love. Band together with others to collect donations to fuel the fight. Raise your voice by posting on Facebook, Twitter or a blog.

More Resources:
• Preterm Labor in Twin Pregnancy
• Caring for Preterm Twins or Multiples
• Consequences of Prematurity
• When Will My Twins Be Born?

Also on About.com:
• Cheryl Morrissette, About's Guide to Preemies
• Avoiding Preterm Labor from About's Guide to Pregnancy
• Premature Babies Photo Gallery from About's Guide to Pediatrics

Elsewhere on the Web:
• March of Dimes Fight Prematurity Awareness Month
Preemie Twins at TwinPregnancyandBeyond.com
Long-Term Effects of Prematurity from the National Organization of Mothers of Twins Club

Parent's Poll: Right or Left?

Monday November 16, 2009

Right or left? No, I'm not asking about your political leanings. I'm talking about hand preference.

Are your twins right handed or left handed? My twins are one of each. I never gave it much thought as my husband is left handed while I am right handed, so I just assumed that our twin daughters took after us. However, I was surprised to learn that handedness is not necessarily a genetic trait. Many monozygotic (identical) twins -- such as my own -- who share the same genetic markers actually have different handedness preferences.

What about your twins? Take this week's Parent's Poll and "hand" in your vote!

More:

Twins and Hand Preference

Forum Friday: Mercurial Twins

Friday November 13, 2009
Paulina writes: "My (2 year old) twins are changing a lot. They do not want to eat their regular meal, they want to choose their own clothes and make a lot of mess for every little thing my husband and I try to do with them... THEY WANT ALL, THE WANT NOTHING!!!! Sometimes they are two angels and when you turn around they can be.... UF!!!!" Paulina writes from Chile, where multiple births are rare. She's looking for support and sympathy from other parents who can relate to the fickle nature of a two-year-old twosome.

Stop by the message forum and share your advice and comments. How did you survive the tempestuous trials of toddler twins?

Celebrity Mom of Multiples

Thursday November 12, 2009

What's it like to be a celebrity actress, author and artists -- and a mom of twin boys? Jane Seymour tells you all about it in this exclusive interview with About.com.

Jane Seymour
Mark Mainz / Getty Images

Jane tells you how she managed with baby twins on the set of her television show, Dr. Quinn, Medicine Woman, how she handles squabbles between her tween twin sons, and how she encourages them to be individuals. Plus she shares her advice on parenting twins in this age of technology.

More:

• Who is Jane Seymour?
• Exclusive Interview
• Q & A with Jane
Book Review of Two at a Time
• More Celebrity Moms of Multiples

Twins of the Week: Tyler and Annie

Wednesday November 11, 2009

2 year old twins Tyler and Annie

Photo reprinted with permission of Kim Daniell.

Meet this week's twins! Tyler and Annie were two years old when this moment was captured.
• Share your thoughts, opinions and advice in the comments section.
More Worldless Wednesday Posts on About.com.
Kissing Twins Photo Gallery
Index of All Photo Galleries

Maclaren Strollers Recalled: Is Your Twins' Stroller Dangerous?

Monday November 9, 2009

Maclaren USA has issued a recall of its umbrella stroller products, and that includes double umbrella strollers used by families with twins.

Maclaren
Photo courtesy of PriceGrabber.com.

The recall covers more than one million Maclaren umbrella stroller products sold in the U.S. since 1999. Double stroller models include the Twin Triumph, Twin Techno and Easy Traveller. There have been fifteen reported incidents of children receiving finger injuries from the strollers, resulting in twelve cases of amputated fingertips. The hinge mechanism can be hazardous to little fingers when the product is being folded or unfolded.


Contact Maclaren to receive a free repair kit with a hinge cover. Call the Maclaren Recall Hotline at (877) 688-2326 or visit the website at www.maclaren.us/recall.

Parent's Poll: Naming Twins & Mulitples

Monday November 9, 2009

Every parents wants to choose the right name for their child. When you're having multiples, the pressure is on to pick not one, but two or three perfect names! It can be tricky, as you want them to work individually, but also recognize that the names will be scrutinized in combination.

How did you choose names for your twins or mulitples? Vote it in this week's Parent's Poll or leave a comment to share your thoughts.

More Resources:


• What Did You Name Your Twins?
• Tips for Selecting Names for Twins
• Most Popular Names for Twins

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